The Spotlight's on You
The stage lights dim, the crowd hushes, and I step out onto the stage. For the next three minutes, I’ll be playing the role of a chef. My kitchen is messy, my diners are hungry, and I have limited ingredients to make something everyone might eat …
It only takes a few minutes as a chef before I become a comforter to a crying babe, a loving wife to a husband returning home, and a master planner with questions about the family calendar.
Ever feel like you’re playing a role?
Like you’re always the chef, the cleaner, the entertainer, the comforter? Same, girl, same.
And while you’re rocking it in all these roles, there’s more to you than this.
It’s easy to get “lost in motherhood,” forgetting who you are outside of your children's needs. You are an individual with dreams, passions, and stories that deserve to be shared.
But how can I do anything more than what I’m currently doing?
I get it. It can feel impossible to come back to yourself in the chaos of motherhood. But allowing yourself to take up space and be known doesn’t take away from your job as mama, it actually enriches it.
Here’s how:
Connection craves vulnerability. Sharing your true self, even the messy parts, creates deeper connections with your partner, friends, and other moms.
Your voice matters. Sharing your experiences, challenges, and joys can inspire and support other mamas on their journeys.
You are more than motherhood. Don’t let your role define you. Reconnect with the things that bring you joy and express the parts of yourself that aren’t just about being a mom.
Remember that you are a multifaceted woman, and your family thrives when they see all of you. And when you need help making space for you, lean on your community for support. We’re here for each other.
Cheering you on, always.
